Reverend Ref +

SING FOR THE DAY

"B" died yesterday. It had been a long two weeks for family, friends, wife and him. We all knew it was coming, it was just a long process. He seemed to hold on until the last of the family was able to get out to MT and visit. After they showed up, he went downhill really quickly. The last time I saw him, his eyes seemed to recognize your voice and his body played out the death rattle.

His wife seems to be relieved that it's over, but still saddened by it just the same. She made the comment that this was my first death. Flashing back to CPE, I said, "No, it isn't. But it is my first one while collecting a paycheck." During CPE, I had to pay the hospital for the privilege of being with people when they died.

Not sure when the funeral will be, but THAT will be my first experience officiating at one. His wife did the smart thing and organized everything ahead of time, knowing that she wouldn't be in any shape mentally to deal with it afterwards.

I'm betting on a Saturday service, but I'll find out later this week.