The Episcopal Church Welcomes You . . .
say the signs and bumper-stickers. When I was in Montana the tag
line for our two parishes was, “You are welcome here.” Three
months ago I wrote about the circus that is the Church, encouraging
you to see the wonderful diversity of God's creation that lives
inside our big tent. And I've often told people, “We're
Episcopalians, we'll take anyone.”
That is not something that comes easily
to people. We tend to attract and be attracted to our own kind.
Whether it's racial, religious, socioeconomic, educational, general
interest, or something else, like attracts like. And within those
groups certain norms and values develop.
Let's talk about church. Why isn't
there just one Christian church in Hagerstown? We all supposedly
believe the same thing – 3-in-1 and 1-in-3, the virgin birth, the
resurrection. So why so many? Because we don't really all believe
the same things. As an example, what would happen if I wanted to
disband the choir, start a praise band, and installed a movie screen
over the rood screen so we could use power point presentations as
worship helps? After all, it'd be a hip, new way to attract a
younger crowd, right?
Even within church, a place that
publicly states we welcome all, norms, values, and behavioral
expectations develop. I've seen those forces be put to use both
subtly and not-so-subtly to remove people from a congregation. And
we use these expectations almost unconsciously as we work to hold up
our expectations and maintain the status quo.
I am as guilty of this as anyone else –
especially when it comes to issues of liturgics. I have been asked
many times about a particular practice or making some change to which
I've politely referred back to the rubrics of the BCP, or canon law,
or tradition. It's not that I'm against innovation or change, but
it's more that I'm against willy nilly change simply to see what it
looks like or to meet some desire to feel good. Taking a line from
Paul, I want to make sure we do all things decently and in order.
Which brings me to today's reading from
Acts.
This passage comes from the end of
Chapter 10. In this chapter we hear about a Roman centurion,
Cornelius, who is faithful to God. He is instructed to bring Peter
to his house to hear what he might say about God. Peter, in the
meantime, is in Joppa having visions about a sheet from heaven that
lowers all sorts of unclean animals down with instructions for Peter
to “kill and eat.” But Peter declines citing Jewish law and that
he has never eaten any unclean thing. At which point a voice from
heaven tells Peter that everything God has made has been made clean.
As Peter is pondering this vision, the centurion's servants show up
and escort him to Cornelius' home.
When Peter gets to the home he
interprets his vision saying, “I truly understand now that God
shows no partiality, but that in all places those who fear God and do
what is right are acceptable to him.” This is really the first
instance of, “All are welcome.” This is the first instance of
what former Presiding Bishop Browning once declared, “There will be
no outcasts in this church.” This is the first instance of that
big tent I wrote about earlier in the year.
It's after all this that we get today's
lesson. It's after all this when the gathered Gentiles received the
gift of the Holy Spirit. It's after all this that Peter says, “Can
anyone withhold water for baptizing these people who have received
the Holy Spirit?” And he ordered them baptized.
There was no catechism. There was no
instruction. There was only a group of believers, water, and a
willingness to be baptized. So much for all things done decently and
in order.
Chapter 10 of Acts, and the first half
of Chapter 11, are chapters of radical welcome. They are chapters
that tell the story of the church taking in all manner of people.
They are chapters that challenge us to think about our own rules,
regulations, norms, and values.
We say we welcome all. We say there
are no outcasts in this church. And, for the most part, I think we
do a good job of living into that ethos. But this is an area that
needs constant vigilance. We can't simply say, “Everybody is
welcome,” and then do nothing. We need to actively welcome people
through invitation and hospitality. And we need to constantly
evaluate our own expectations about the people who come through our
doors.
What are our expectations about dress,
education level, gender identity, income level . . . bathing
routines? What about reading level and comprehension and our
expectation that people navigate the Hymnal and BCP? How about our
expectation of even a rudimentary knowledge of TEC or Christianity in
general? What is our self-expectation to teach those things? Are we
willing . . . am I willing . . . to baptize just anyone who walks in
our doors and asks to be baptized?
This is where it gets tricky – trying
to determine the difference between open and inclusive and holding to
norms and expectations. The trick, I think, is to pay attention to
how they are used.
If we say we are open to all who are
like us, we're not doing it right. If we use our norms and
expectations as barriers to keep people out, we're not doing it
right. But if we truly welcome all without regard to difference,
we're on the right path. If we use our norms and expectations to
help define us, and allow others to determine for themselves if this
is the right place, then I think we're on the right path.
Part of the mission of St. John's is to
Welcome. We welcome people to worship with us. We welcome them into
the faith. We welcome them into ministry opportunities. We welcome
people to eat with us, both physically and spiritually.
In today's reading from Acts, Peter
welcomed people into the faith through baptism. Later on he will be
questioned by the guardians of the faith as to why he associated with
and baptized Gentiles. His response was basically, “Because God
welcomes everyone.”
Part of our mission here at St. John's
is to welcome people into our midst. Let's not be surprised or
offended when people actually take us up on that offer.
Amen.
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