Every month I'm required to write a piece for our newsletter. This is not one of the more fun things I do as part of my job, but I do it. This month's article is about hobbies, and I thought it was sufficiently good enough to post up here:
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I was thinking about hobbies recently, mainly
because I was expecting my new football packet to arrive in the mail while I
was off gallivanting around Montana.
What is a hobby? Hobby is defined as an activity or interest
pursued for pleasure or relaxation and not as a main occupation. Hobbies are not our jobs, but they can take
up as much time as a job. Hobbies help
us keep a balance in our lives between those things we must do (work) and those
things that we do for our own gratification.
They can provide a sense of fulfillment that we may not be able to get
anywhere else. They can give us an
outlet for energies we are unable to use elsewhere. They can provide additional friendships among
like-minded people. And hobbies, if we
are serious about them, will cost us time and money.
People who carve or quilt spend their
money on tools, materials and maybe conventions to pursue their hobby. Model railroaders, hang-gliders, mountain
climbers, knitters, gardeners and almost anything else you can think of as a
hobby requires dedication, time and money.
People who are fanatic about turning off lights and keeping the heat
down to save money on their power bill will easily spend any amount saved, and
then some, on a new toy or tool or class towards a hobby they are passionate
about.
I read an article recently about the
hobbies of several Episcopal priests, and two of them stood out for me. The first was a priest from Chicago whose
hobby was open water kayaking and pursued it to the point of becoming a
nationally accredited instructor. She
has spent a bunch of time and money on kayak lessons, equipment and classes to
get to this point. The other one was a
priest from (I think) New York who got involved in boxing. He also has dedicated time and money to being
in the gym and learning to become a competent boxer.
Mrs. Ref got involved in scrapbooking
many years ago. She has spent money on
paper, punches, scissors, binders, lettering, stamps and probably more things
than I can name as well as her time putting all of her scrapbooks
together. When we were in Montana she connected
with a scrapbooking group that met at the school. They were all taken aback when she first
showed up with her big rolling case of scrapbook material – especially when
they used laundry baskets. And now she’s
found a new hobby in singing with the Sweet Adelines group in Medford. This also will require a commitment of time
and money.
For my own part, my single hobby is
officiating football. I’ve spent a fair
amount of money on shoes, socks, knickers, pants, shorts, shirts, flags, whistles,
beanbags, hats and other necessary items over the years. Some of these things I’ve needed, and some of
them I’ve simply wanted. I’ve also spent
money on membership dues, insurance coverage and clinics. And this hobby of mine has certainly taken
its share of my time. Weekly meetings,
weekday afternoon games and Friday night games are the most obvious; but there
is also time spent with the rules book in reading, studying, rereading,
marking, highlighting, referencing and memorizing. And with the exception of my time in
seminary, my first year in Montana and this year, I think I’ve spent every
wedding anniversary on a football field of some sort.
Hobbies, if we are really passionate
about them, will take time and money as we pursue them. We want to improve on our craft simply
because we want to get better. We want
to be able to take pride in what we do. And while our jobs may not always grant us
that ability or satisfaction, our hobbies can.
We don’t pursue a hobby in order to be rewarded, but we all appreciate
recognition by those involved for a job well done. If I make a great call on the field you can
be sure that at least half the people watching that game will think it was a
bad call. But my peers know it was a
great call, and I know it was a great call; and that’s when all of the time,
money and dedication I have given to this hobby pays off.
What is your hobby? What lights your fire, floats your boat or
draws out your passion? What, if you
counted up hours and money spent, has cost you more than you want to admit? And what would you continually and
passionately pursue even when faced with a dollar total you can’t quite
believe?
What if we behaved as if church were our
hobby? What would it look like if we
spent as much time, money and talent on St. Luke’s as we do on our
hobbies? One of the reasons for a hobby
is to develop balance in our lives. St.
Luke’s can help to achieve that balance by providing spiritual depth. Hobbies also provide a place for us to
grow. St. Luke’s, through our worship,
education and other activities, can be a place of great growth if we make the
effort. How many people do you tell
about your hobby, or how many people have you invited to try your hobby? This is called evangelism. Do you talk about St. Luke’s the same way you
talk about your hobby?
There is a lot of literature out there
about the decline of the church; and there has been some angst here about that
very thing as well. Questions about how
to make church relevant again, or how to make church a priority for people
abound. Maybe we’re looking at church
the wrong way. Maybe we need to start
thinking about church as a hobby. Maybe
we need to start spending our time, money and talent on St. Luke’s with the
same dedication and passion as we spend on our hobbies.
What is your hobby?
1 comments:
I am involved dollhouses in a big way. I create my own worlds, peopled by folks only I know; how can I decorate a house for a stranger? It stays tidy, only needs to be dusted - and de-cobwebbed - maybe four times a year. If I don't like the way a room turned out, it's a lot easier to start all over in a space 12 inches square than a room 12 feet square. Not necessarily cheaper, heaven knows, but easier. I'll balk at spending money on "real" stuff, but never blink and plunking down $50 for a silver teapot that will balance on my fingertip.
Like Mrs. Ref, I have Internet friends all over the place, people I've never met, but when I introduce myself, we are instantly old pals.
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